Friday, February 23, 2007

It’s all in the name of love


It’s all in the name....?


Sweetheart, darling, honey, mummy, taata baby, ssebo... What you choose to call your better half is entirely up to you as long as it doesn't antagonise your relationship.

Love really is so strange, as Dolly Parton and Kenny Rogers echoed out. While they may have resorted to referring to their lovers as “baby”, “lover boy”, many of us have gladly settled for pet names like "Taata Junior", "daddy", and "mummy".


Cultural call.


In most cases you find that when a lady/girl/woman name it, come to join in one family or making friendship/lover, you find they are using funny names, that can bring alot of romance to each other, but in my view i think people just do it for the sake of respecting others name.


I one time met some guy who told the girl friend that used to called him with his local name, i mean family name, what the guy say was so contraversal to me because you really wonder what type of relationship they are having, "Are you my mom who gave me that name?" Foolish, to hell with you.


Now, can that words really makes someone to chucked the girl? What could be the logic behind this? Send your comments about this.


"Emotions aside, pet names are engineered by the need to show a partner respect, especially in front of the children. In the setting of a typical African home, it's as rare as hen's teeth for a wife to call her husband by his name. Since endearments such as "sweetie", or "honey" may be distasteful in some families, the good old traditional ones come in handy."

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